Time Out Tuesday

Time for another Time Out Teusday!

This week: Friend's ex girlfriend. The Scarlet Woman. Upskirters.

1) I have a friend whose ex girlfriend won't leave him alone. She's always asking him this or that, nagging about certain things, getting him to make decisions for her. She doesn't seem to get that he broke up with her because she was like this. The other night, they got into a bit of a fight. I won't divulge any extra details, but suffice it to say this girl needs some time to herself to reflect on who she is and that she needs to fight for things and learn on her own, without running to him when she wants to know something, and without getting nasty and snippy wth him when he's done something she's jealous of.

2) The Scarlet Woman. She used to be a friend of mine, but I got wise. I confided some things to her and she tuned around and spread nasty rumors. She systematically worked her way in with every single person I talked to regularly (especially my male friends) and convinced them to believe lies about me. She's come back recently for grad school, and she's already starting back at this. She's gotten herself right in the center of a group of the poeple I feel quite comfortable around and made such a spot for herself, that sometimes I will come up and she makes me feel like I've invited myself into someone else's circle. She definitely makes me feel like there's no room for me, and it just plain sucks. I'm the girl that always crashes guy's night at the Name Of Sports Bar. I'm the girl they laugh with like one of the guys. Not you. And sure, I don't mind if you want to join us. That's great because you're fun. Join us. But joining us doesn't mean replacing me, talking about me in ways that make them alienate me in exchange for you. That's just nasty and unnecessary.

3) Upskirters. Recently, there's been a lot of panty shots on the internet. With the advent of cell phone cameras, blue tooth, etc, it's become easy to snap a shot up a woman's skirt without her noticing. These shots are now being posted all over the internet, and that's just ridiculous. Stop it, you pervs. Women already have enough to worry about without needing to be afraid of panty shots being taken in broad daylight.